So your partner annoys you, that’s OK!

(Pictures by Melissa Pushelberg) All any of us wants is the perfect relationship. We want to be happy, laugh and love like we’ve never loved before. Here’s the thing though, life isn’t perfect and neither is your relationship as I’ve previously touched on in another blog (Instagram love vs real life love). When you thinkRead more

My social media hiatus and finding myself again

As some of you may have noticed (and kindly messaged), I took myself away from the blogging/social media side of the world the last few months. Why? Well I just felt like I’d lost myself a bit. For years I’d been the Zambian muffin girl/ entrepreneur from Sheffield who worked two jobs whilst running aRead more

What legacy will you leave behind?

  Recently I’ve been frustrated. Frustrated with myself, frustrated with peoples actions around me and generally, just frustrated with life. I’m a very driven person and I’ve always wanted to make a change. It doesn’t matter how big or small. If I can help even one person in my life, whether that’s to make themRead more

I may be British, but that doesn't make me any less Zambian

I know it’s been a while since I last posted but I was having an existential crisis. Between life catching up with me, having to finish my masters and starting my graduate job, I got to a point where I needed to remove myself from everything… I’ve talked before about how much I’ve loved growingRead more

Instagram love vs real life love

Isn’t it funny how people look at other couples on social media and assume they have the perfect lives? I’ve had it plenty of times where people have looked at pictures or Snap Chats of me and Sean and have commented on how cute, happy and perfect are. People have said they wish they hadRead more