10 Things I’ve Learned About Interracial Dating

As someone that has been brought up to love someone for who they are and now what they look like/what colour they are, I’ve come to realise just how naive that way of thinking can be. Over the years I’ve come to notice some odd, funny and sometimes sad things about interracial dating. No matterRead more

So your partner annoys you, that’s OK!

(Pictures by Melissa Pushelberg) All any of us wants is the perfect relationship. We want to be happy, laugh and love like we’ve never loved before. Here’s the thing though, life isn’t perfect and neither is your relationship as I’ve previously touched on in another blog (Instagram love vs real life love). When you thinkRead more

My social media hiatus and finding myself again

As some of you may have noticed (and kindly messaged), I took myself away from the blogging/social media side of the world the last few months. Why? Well I just felt like I’d lost myself a bit. For years I’d been the Zambian muffin girl/ entrepreneur from Sheffield who worked two jobs whilst running aRead more

Falo Fabrics

A few weeks ago I attended Sean’s sisters wedding in a Falo Fabrics original. I knew what type of dress I wanted for months but no matter where I looked, I couldn’t find one. I wanted a long V-neck dress with a slit that showed off my western and African culture. It happened to beRead more