Introducing a non-black boyfriend to your African parents 

“Dad, I want you to meet my boyfriend. Oh and by the way, he’s white…” So apparently this is a thing. People live in societies where they have to point out the race of their spouse when introducing them to their parents or won’t even introduce their spouses due to colour and I find thatRead more

Life goes on

Break ups alone are always hard. I’ve always said there are things I would accept a man doing. We could argue, scream, throw things at each other but when I tell you I’m committed that’s it. Cheating has always been that one deal breaker. Your best friend should not break your trust never mind your heart. IRead more

Depression

I was walking from uni recently when I noticed a guy stood looking a little confused. I wondered what was wrong with him whilst thinking he looked pretty fit with his rugged hair and beard (I have a thing for stubble and beards). Anyway… as I got closer it turned out I knew the guy!Read more

My first love

I’ve always been obsessed with movies like One Day, The Notebook and The Fault In Our Stars mainly because they all have a few things in common. A) Each of them have made me cry due to their ridiculous soppiness and B) they made me excited about falling in love. Although I believe there areRead more